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Avoid comparing the child to others
Every child has talents, strengths and weaknesses that distinguish him from other children, and therefore it is imperative to refrain from comparing the child with the abilities of others. Because that causes jealousy and trouble among the children . Avidan Milevsky, author of the book "Intimate Relationships in Childhood and Adolescence: Predictions and Consequences," says: Parents should take on the role of coaches in their dealings with their children, not the role of rulers, [1] and it should also be far from punishing children who have feelings of jealousy; Jealousy is a natural human emotion that all individuals feel, and therefore it is preferable to study the causes of jealousy, and treat the cases and causes that lead to them, and parents can reduce the intensity of jealousy between siblings, or between the child and the children around him by not comparing and distinguishing between children. [2]
Teaching the child gratitude and forgiveness
Children should be taught how to appreciate and respect the experiences of others, and to appreciate all the difficulties and challenges that enhance feelings of compassion, gratitude and tolerance between children and siblings. Gratitude helps reduce feelings of jealousy and creates an environment full of love and affection. [1]
Listen to children's needs
The child's needs must be heard by allowing him the freedom to simply talk about his feelings, and say words that encourage him, make him feel the love of others, and keep him away from envy and jealousy. [3]
Read stories about the effects of jealousy
Jealousy causes negative effects on friendship between children, and therefore the child should be given an opportunity to reveal the effects of jealousy, by reading stories on this topic, or applying classic stories about envy, jealousy, courage, and tolerance. [3]
Get professional help
Should get help in the event of a psychiatrist is not successful handling of family and home with the child jealous problem; Where psychologists and specialists in "family dynamics and dealing with children" have innovative solutions to childhood problems, by providing methods that illustrate how to properly deal with at home, and that help reduce or eliminate the problem of jealousy. [2]
References
- ^ A b "8 Ways To Help Your Like Each : other ] kids" , Www.familyshare.com , Retrieved 13-12-2017. Edited.
- ^ A b JODY BRAVERMAN (13-6-2017), "Understanding Jealousy In Kids" , Www.livestrong.com , Retrieved 13-12-2017. Edited.
- ^ A b of Jennifer Geddes of Kelly, "How To Deal With Jealousy To In Kids" , Www.parenting.com , Retrieved 13-12-2017. Edited.
